So often we give ourselves credit for only those things that we’ve made happen intentionally... goals that we’ve reached and checked off of our To-Do list. When we look back over our lives, we might think the list is not quite long enough for us to feel a sense of success, worth or pride. What about all the events that we didn't allow to happen? Shouldn't they count toward our list of successes? It’s important to count the times when life has thrown a problem or situation at us that could have turned out badly had we not ducked to avoid it. Maybe ducking and avoiding the issue wasn’t an option… maybe we had to find the strength, patience and resourcefulness to fix the problem that threatened our health and happiness, or that of our family. We need to also give ourselves credit for the hundreds of potential problems that we’ve prevented by making the right choice, which may not have always been the easy choice. We should give ourselves credit for simply being brave, honest, responsible, and respectful! Life doesn’t stay on track by itself. It takes diligence, tenacity and attention to detail. These are daily successes that we should definitely recognize! When you include all of those triumphs, it’s a much more accurate representation of your life and the effort it took to get you to this place in time! Build your list, Cindy
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6/10/2020 06:08:27 pm
If you are able to achieve something, no matter how big or small it is, then you need to be happy about it. I know tons of people who do not even know how to acknowledge that they are able to do, and I hate it. I really think that it is important that we try to work on what we are trying to do in life. I really do wish that we become able to do this on a daily basis.
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The Bright-ish Side!
6/27/2020 10:22:45 am
You're so right! We forget that we need to celebrate the big and small victories. Thanks so much for your contribution!
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11/4/2022 01:43:01 am
Much answer hospital ever less. Just think herself break.
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Cindy Gagne Teixeira
Just like you, I wear many hats. I'm a mom, a teacher, a friend, a daughter, a sister, and a writer. I choose to laugh (and talk... and write) about my problems because crying takes too much time. CategoriesArchives
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